A client says that before she can sleep at night, her mother has to be in the hallway, her brother has to be in the bathroom, and her sister has to be in the kitchen.
I thought to myself, “Gee, that’s kind of weird…”
And then she says, “And the next night, they all have to trade places. My sister in the hallway, my brother in the kitchen, and my mother in the bathroom”.
I said, “Well, how long has this been going on?”
She said, “Oh, only about 14 years.”
I said, “14 YEARS??!! Honey, you must have had hypnotherapy or psychotherapy or something, right?”
She said, “Yeah, but none of that stuff worked.”
Note: You gotta remember, I had only been doing NDT for about 2 months. What was I supposed to be doing here? This is where you just have to ask for guidance, sometimes.
Analysis: The issue here is that the mom, sister, and brother are all cremated, and she had been moving the ashes from room to room before she could sleep every night.
Note: Just when you think you’ve heard EVERYTHING, you’ll always be surprised by what people say. Let’s go back and find out what happened. So, her right eye tested weak. I asked her to pick a male person she knew. She started with a male named Jim.
“Jim, I forgive you for misleading my family. Jim, I forgive you for lying to all of us.” OK. Nothing out of the ordinary. “Jim I forgive you for killing all our friends, you’re fucking EVIL! You killed my family.”
I was thinking she meant emotionally killing. Right? She said “Oh, no, he really killed them, murdered them.
“WHAT???” I asked.
Mickey and her mother were members of The People’s Temple . . . . in Jonestown, Guyana. Remember that? When those 900 people drank Kool-Aid and died? They started in Oakland at the People’s Temple, and they worked 5 years, 7 days a week, 12 hour days at the Oakland temple. And the father left the family, because he couldn’t control his wife. And she wanted to be a part of this religious cult, and wouldn’t listen to the rest of the family. The father left with his brother, and the mother and son and daughter were working and earned the right to go to Guyana.
On the day of the massacre, she was out of the compound in town with another worker, and she was 12 or 13 years old at that time. They heard over the radio that there was an attack on the compound, and they rushed to get back to the compound, and the authorities were already there, not allowing them to enter. They had to wait outside for 3 days.
When she was let in, she saw piles of bodies lying there for three days in the sun, stacked 6 or 7 feet high. In those piles, her mother, two aunts, and two uncles were lying dead.
P.S. She had tried to get rid of the cremated remains for most of the 14 years that she had them, but just couldn’t.
Example: She would get in the car with the ashes, start driving, and 10 minutes, later, she didn’t even know where she was. She would sometimes drive for ½ an hour, and suddenly come to, and she wouldn’t know where she was. She couldn’t part with the ashes, and this happened over and over.
At the end of the 3 day NDT flux period, where you are not to do anything or have any judgments, she suddenly gets the urge to release the ashes. She goes to the forest and digs a hole in the ground, and lines it with amethyst crystals, places the ashes in the hole, and makes her peace with it.
She went home that evening and put a phone call into her father, who she had not spoken to for 22 years, and said “Hi Dad, this is your daughter Mickey. I know that we haven’t been on good terms, but I’ve been working with New Decision Therapy to change my life, and IT’S TIME. I’d like to have a relationship with you”.
About New Decision Therapy
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