I had a client in who, in childhood who wanted to be a dancer. When we tested for blockages of what to work on, the age of 1, 9,and 16 and 40 years old also came up. These are usually indications of major life-defeating decisions. I asked her what HAPPENED when you were one???? Thinking what in the world happened at one???
1 year old: Her mother was in Europe with her and they were on a sky tram going up a mountain. You know, like the one in Palm Springs. It was crowded and people were leaning against each other by the door, and the mother was holding her as a one-year old baby, not leaning against the door, but close to it. Somehow the door opened and the mother fell out of the tram, with the baby in her arms…
Within a half second, the mother threw the baby up in the air, and someone in the tram grabbed it by the legs, and pulled it back into the tram, and the mother plunged to her death.
Isn’t that nice to hear? The teacher you look up to…
When she quit dancing, that was the 3rd decision not to live.
Age 9:
What happened at age 9?, I asked.
She said she went to a county fair and they were riding the Ferris wheel, and you know how that bar that goes across the front of you when you are in the seat to keep you from falling out?
She said that she and her friend put their legs on top of it, and it opened up, and her friend fell out and got hurt somewhat badly.
You never know what you’re going to hear in front of the mirror when these people open up…it’s so dramatic.
16 years old:
So, I said to her, “What happened at age 16?”
She said she was in dance classes from the age of 7, and one day, she overheard her dance instructor whispering to another teacher, “Oh, she’s never going to make it as a dancer because of ‘something’ with her legs”. She began to develop leg circulation problems.
Age 40:
At age 40, she is with her husband, and they are having a knock-down screaming match. and he announces that he wants a divorce, and like a scene out of Gone With the Wind, he walks out on her. He gets to the door, goes down the steps to the sidewalk, turns around, and says to her, “By the way, you’ll never get anyone to ever love you or marry you again because your legs are so ugly”.
WHAT???? How could anyone SAY something like that?????
The truth is, there was nothing wrong with her legs; they are not ugly…I’ve SEEN her legs – NOT ugly in my opinion.
She does NDT and forgives her mother for dying and leaving her to carry on alone, forgives her dance instructor that made her give up her dream to be a dancer, forgives the girl on the Ferris wheel, forgives the ex-husband, and then works on herself.
I hadn’t heard from her in 2 years and she calls me up one night and says, Hi Mike this is Jane. Do you remember me, I wanted to be a dancer and stuff like that? Well, I took your advice and decided I was going to start dancing again,
So, I moved to New York and went to a VERY famous dance school. (Juilliard?) I don’t remember which she told me. And I needed to audition. So I walk in and see 7 dance judges sitting behind their skirted tables. All in a row – looking rather sour I thought. And I could tell by the look on their faces, as I walked in to the spot where I was to start, I wasn’t gonna make it.
Anyway, I put on my music, and did my dance routine and when I finished, I waited for a reply from the head judge, who looked at the other judges and them to him, with no sound of talking between them for what seemed like forever. I finally said to them, “Well, aren’t you gonna say ANYTHING????
The Head judge clears his throat and says “I guess you knew when you walked in here that you weren’t going to get in, right?” She threw her head back and closed her eyes. Yes, she answered. “Well, you’re right. We don’t want you – – – – as a student – – – – WE WANT YOU AS A TEACHER!”
In all the years we have sat here, watching thousands of applicants, we have NEVER seen anything like what you just did. There was a LIGHT shimmering from your upper torso. UNBELIEVABLE! Shocking. We all saw it. If you can dance like that, we definitely don’t want you as a student. We want you to teach our students and share with us that inner light thing, business, whatever you call it.
Note: Oh, and by the way, did I tell you that this woman is 72 years old and FINALLY living her dream? That’s the kind of power we are dealing with, when people make the decision to live their lives.
Dance was her CANTILLATION!!
Talk about cantillation! Before she got back into dance school, we tested her for dance as her cantillation, and she was blocked. After she was cleared, she arrived at dance school and shared the power of her healing story with students and the judges. She was told by the judge’s panel that she radiated a light from the body that flowed through her with an assurance from deep within the soul, as if she was born to dance. And that is why they let a 72 year old into dance school. WOW!
No matter what the story, no matter how interesting or how horrid, a client’s life issues are– your job as a practitioner is to hold the “truth frequency” until it touches their heart. That means that you stay with them and are there for them. As they go through the mirror process.
It is important for Young Living people to understand that issues may “appear” different, like separate issues but are often LINKED, repeating themselves many times, until we REMEMBER the original hurt that started the whole thing (when she was grabbed by the legs) and you can see the repeat “Leg issue” in each example.
About New Decision Therapy
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